I missed this one. We had a closing last Wednesday (March 2, 2011) just as I was leaving for the Northwest Video Summit with Frank & Brian of Think Big Work Small. A young couple was closing the purchase of their new home and had their 5 year old with them. He was a really cute, intelligent, and well mannered young man.
I had a lot on my mind. Last week was super busy with the TBWS video summit, RE Barcamp Seattle 2011 (March 3), and Mike Mueller stayed in town to give 2 workshops for The Talon Group clients on Facebook Pages (March 4). What an amazing week and everyday was super action packed! (More about that in the next post.)
As I was scrambling to leave the office I could hear the initial beginnings of the closing and made a mental note to myself, ‘what a lovely family’, then off I went. I was out of the office for the rest of the week and it was just today I witnessed the gift that was left behind for all of us to enjoy.

I love making the white board available to kids. Their pictures tell so many stories.
What touches me is the happiness I see in this picture. How precious and note the smiles. Is that a rainbow, a gateway, or a bridge I see over the top star? There’s only one frown. I wondered if it was from the artist? There’s nothing like a closing to try a child’s patience, let alone his parents. I often wonder, “There’s got to be a way in these so called modern times that this could be way more simple and straight forward.”
Supposedly we are an advanced civilization leading the world into the 21st Century, yet we seem to go out of our way to make life a total complicated pain in the you know what. I mean the mind numbing humongous reams of boiler plate paperwork you need to sign your life away with (that would take you days to read and interpret) to make it happen, and all the city, county, state, and federal regulations that come with it. We didn’t invent that, escrow that is. We’re the unbiased 3rd party taking instructions.
To the child I hope it will be a happy home, full of love, play, dreams, and imagination. I hope he never has to worry about its market value or that it’s now a commodity, or worth less than the mortgage his parents committed themselves to every month for years to come.
Kids should never have to worry about all this crap us adults do. They should have a life as a kid and be able to grow up and go into the world with the sweet memories of HOME. Lord knows they’re gonna need it.
As a kid growing up I was blessed. Like any family we had good, not so good, and a few bad times. But I never worried about the value of our home and neither did my mom and dad. It wasn’t about that. It was what it was, our HOME and where we lived. I could always go to my room, my sanctuary. We didn’t think much about those that had a whole lot more. We were way too busy living our lives, being kids, and doing our thing.
Just sayin’…
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